The Other Day Worth Celebrating: A Thoughtful Look at Father’s Day

Why We Celebrate Mother’s Day More Than Father’s Day
(And Why That Might Be Changing)

Every May, the spotlight turns to the mothers in our lives — and rightfully so. From school-stage performances to overflowing brunch tables, Mother’s Day arrives with fanfare, flowers, and an outpouring of affection. Come June, however, Father’s Day often slips by with a little less sparkle.

It raises an interesting question: Why do we celebrate Mother’s Day more than Father’s Day?

Tradition and Emotion

Much of it comes down to tradition and how society has long framed the parental roles. Mothers are often cast as the emotional core of the family — the nurturers, the comforters, the ones who remember everyone’s birthday. That deep emotional connection makes it easy (and natural) to express appreciation with cards, gifts, and grand gestures.

Fathers, on the other hand, have historically been seen as the providers — quiet, reliable, and perhaps less vocal. Their affection often shows up in different ways: picking you up after school, fixing what’s broken, or simply being there without needing to say much.

As a result, Father’s Day tends to be quieter — a handshake instead of a hug, a meal rather than a celebration.

Changing Times, Changing Roles

But that narrative is beginning to shift.

Today’s fathers are more hands-on than ever before. They’re showing up — at school events, bedtime routines, and kitchen counters. They’re learning that love isn’t always about provision; sometimes, it’s simply about presence.

And with this evolution, so comes a new perspective: that Father’s Day deserves just as much thought and warmth. Maybe it’s not about outdoing Mother’s Day — but rather, ensuring Dad feels appreciated in a way that’s meaningful to him.

Thoughtful Gestures Go a Long Way

This June, consider swapping the usual “Thanks, Dad” for something a little more intentional. It doesn’t have to be grand. Sometimes, a quiet moment over a good meal, a surprise weekend break, or simply making time for him can say more than words ever could.

At Mercure Singapore on Stevens, we’re making room for those moments. Whether it’s a casual toast over great food, a staycation just for Dad, or a surprise to show appreciation in your own way, we invite you to celebrate the father figure in your life a little differently this year.